Posts Tagged ‘Motivation’

What’s Your Weight Loss Reward?

July 28th, 2010

On may to work I walk through a patient wating area on the way to my office and sometimes the titles on magazine covers jump out at me.  Today an issue of Ladies Home Journal with Kristie Alley on the cover (yes, it is almost August and this was the May issue…I don’t have the luxury of working at a ritzy suburban hospital, so our magazines show up late;) jumped out at me.  “I’m going to loose 100 pounds again”  This was the tag line on the cover. 

Kirstie Alley before and after pic #1It got me thinking about how we reward ourselves.  Maybe affirm would be a better choice.  Kristie had dropped off the radar screen of the public eye until she gained a ton of weight.  Her struggle to lose and keep the weight off revived her career.  Then she dropped off the radar screen again because she was back to “normal”.  So whether it was intentional or not, she regained the weight and is back on the radar screen as she struggles to loose the weight again. 

The point I am trying to make with this illustration is that her reward, money & fame, came back with the weight.  For the rest of us it is more subtle.  Maybe it is the sugar rush from that candy bar, the buzz from a cup of coffee, the cholesterol from the cheese burger, all causing changes in the body’s hormones.  These small daily indulgences all add up until one day we wake up, look in the mirror, and say, “dang, I don’t look good naked anymore”.  

I wish changing our habits was easy, but you are fighting a genetic/metabolic reward center.  It takes a combination of consistent work and getting back to basics.  Breaking the cycle is the hardest part, but once your body is running on clean fuel again…WOW!! <–that is your body’s response to how it feels. 

RIP THE BAND-AID OFF!!

I believe the cold turkey approach is the best method.  Here are some tips to get started:

  1. Identify the “reward” that is sabotaging you and make a goal of where you want to be.
  2. Stay away from the temptation…whether it is sugar, pasta, eating out to often, etc.
  3. Start making meals from scratch (don’t give me you don’t have time because you can make great meals in under 20 minutes) and think high fiber!
  4. Find an activity that gets you moving, but most importantly is fun.
  5. REMEMBER this is a marathon not a sprint so focus on the incremental progress.

Good Luck and let me know h0w it goes!

Richard

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100th Post!! Why I Write My Life in Pencil

July 20th, 2010

If you couldn’t guess from the title…this is my 100th blog post!  So I thought I would share a little bit about myself and what I am trying to accomplish with this blog.  The path of life for me has taken many twists and turns.  Sometimes it seems like I am on the scenic path, but I just have to remember to keep working towards a long term vision.  During this journey, I have needed to revise my current path.  That is not to say that I am wandering aimlessly rather that writing in pencil allows me to make minor adjustments and rework the path to my goals.  My long-term goals are my passions and this blog is where I can give them voice.  This blog also allows me to share what I am learning on the way. 

My passions (beyond my family) are health, nutrition, and fitness.  Overlaying theses passions is the knowledge that if we can’t have fun pursuing our goals than we need to change something up!  That is why my posts gravity towards health first philosophies.  I share the knowledge I am learning with all of you because I want to improve all of our qualities of life.  I believe that if we work together we can achieve great things.  I hope to be like George Bailey in “It’s a Wonderful Life” and look back at all lives I have positively touched.  That will be a wonderful reward and make me “the richest man in town”.

So my parting thoughts come from someone dear to all of us…listen to your mom when she said eat your vegetables, get outside to play, and get plenty of sleep!  Do that daily and we will all thrive as we grow old together!

Cheers,

Richard

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A Message of Truth from Bill Gates

June 16th, 2010

There is an email forward circulating around that is attributed to Bill Gates.  I do not know if he give this speech, but there are some real pearls of wisdom in it.  The “rules” he spells out are not directly related to health and fitness, but there are a lot of parallels as to why we fail or succeed.

The email blurb:

Bill Gates recently gave a speech at a High School about 11 things they did not and will not learn in school. He talks about how feel-good, politically correct teachings created a generation of kids with no concept of reality and how this concept set them up for failure in the real world.

Mr. Gates’ 11 Rules to Live by…

  1. Life is not fair – get used to it!
  2. The world doesn’t care about your self-esteem. The world will expect you to accomplish something BEFORE you feel good about yourself.
  3. You will NOT make $60,000 a year right out of high school. You won’t be a vice-president with a car phone until you earn both.
  4. If you think your teacher is tough, wait till you get a boss.
  5. Flipping burgers is not beneath your dignity. Your Grandparents had a different word for burger flipping: they called it opportunity.
  6. If you mess up, it’s not your parents’ fault, so don’t whine about your mistakes, learn from them.
  7. Before you were born, your parents weren’t as boring as they are now. They got that way from paying your bills, cleaning your clothes and listening to you talk about how cool you thought you were. So before you save the rain forest from the parasites of your parent’s generation, try delousing the closet in your own room.
  8. Your school may have done away with winners and losers, but life HAS NOT. In some schools, they have abolished failing grades and they’ll give you as MANY TIMES as you want to get the right answer. This doesn’t bear the slightest resemblance to ANYTHING in real life.
  9. Life is not divided into semesters. You don’t get summers off and very few employers are interested in helping you FIND YOURSELF. Do that on your own time.
  10. Television is NOT real life. In real life people actually have to leave the coffee shop and go to jobs.
  11. Be nice to nerds. Chances are you’ll end up working for one.
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My List to a Fresh Start this New Year!

January 5th, 2010

For me the New Year started with a bang and I realized that there is a lot to do in 2010!  The New Year brings resolutions of change, but more importantly a fresh start. 

Maybe you made your own resolutions for a better life, better you, or something simpler.  Unfortunately, this optimism often ends in failure, but it doesn’t have to…borrowing a term from Mike Mahler, we can become part of the 5% club.

“Of course, there will be a few people who finish what they start and make 2010 their best year ever.  Lets call these people the 5% club.  The 5% club realize it takes more than passion to create success in any endeavor.  Without the right plan–and a great dose of tenacity–you can forget about accomplishing anything life-changing.” (you can find his article here on being successful).

I am going to share some ideas on how to make those New Year’s resolutions serve a deeper purpose.  It is time to reinvent ourselves and shake off the previous year’s failures.  This gift is about making anything possible and changing how we live!

These five tips will help you to have a fresh start this New Year, not just having your resolutinos stick.   However, I don’t want those looking for help sticking to their resolutions to go away empty handed.  Remember that reinventing yourself is more than just lists, but with saying that here is a link to a great list from Leo Babauta.

Here is five ways to start that change…

1. Forget about it.
We gather emotional baggage from previous failures, commitments, and habits. We are unwilling to change careers because we have been doing it for too long.  Life is busy and leaves no time for our loved ones or for getting healthy.  We are familiar with the current situation and comfortable with the status quo.  It is time for Tabula Rasa, (Latin for blank slate).

The line between successful people and unsuccessful people is that successful people are willing to do what needs to be done regardless of their feelings about it.  The passion may be lacking, but the work gets done.  The work that needs to be done now is to shed the old baggage.  It often times is hard to clear the slate, I know. 

Let go of the attachments to what you’ve been doing for the past year, or years. Let go of the failures. Let go of fears you’ve built up. Let go of reluctance. Let go of your ideas about what your life has to be like, because that’s the way it’s gone so far. Let go of long-held beliefs and habits.

2010 brings a new beginning so forget about last year.

2. Find what is important TODAY!
Goals are important for the year, but for today forget about them. Rather choose what you want to do today.

What matters most to you, to your life? What are you most passionate about, right now? What excites and invigorates you? What would give you the most fulfillment?  Find that answer and focus on it today.  The answer may take a day, a week, a month, or a year to complete.  The important thing is to completely dedicate yourself to doing it today.

3. Remove distractions so you can focus.
Take time each morning to focus on the answer from #2 above.  We need to remove the distractions whether it is TV, email, Facebook, chores, work, errands, etc…This is the time to clear the slate and start each day with a clarity of today’s goal.  There will be time later to deal with life’s clutter. In fact, if you can, shut off the Internet for awhile. You can come back to it after your break.

4. Happiness starts today.
Happiness is part of the journey not just the destination.  Rather than thinking happiness comes from finishing a goal find the happiness now.  When you push happiness back until later, it’ll never come. Instead learn to be happy now, it’ll always be here. 

This New Year is about doing what matters most to you.  If it is worthy of your focus, time, and heart then it will bring you happiness.  You’re doing what you love. And that is truly a gift.

5. Begin anew each day.
Borrowing a concept from Buddhism, each day is a chance for rebirth.  Take that idea and put it to practice by doing what matters most to you each day.  Start fresh each day.  That doesn’t mean that the goal changes from the previous day, but what matters is to be happy right now. 

Each day gives a new start not only on New Year’s Day.  That new start is the gift I have to share with you.  Start the New Year fresh…

Tabula Rasa!!

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Training Plans: Who needs’em?

October 26th, 2009

Over the years I have been a generalist in my training philosophy with occasional goals sprinkled into my routine.  This past year I have been evolving in my fitness goals largely to my current fascination with Scott Sonnon’s Circular Strength Training programs.  I have started a journey to be as he puts it a “Serial Specialist”

I want to share a story I heard last week before I get into the why you should specialize…

Sometimes your biggest weakness can become your biggest strength. Take, for example, the story of one 10-year-old boy who decided to study judo despite the fact that he had lost his left arm in a devastating car accident.

The boy began lessons with an old Japanese judo master. The boy was doing well, so he couldn’t understand why, after three months of training the master had taught him only one move.

“Sensei,” the boy finally said, “Shouldn’t I be learning more moves?”

“This is the only move you know, but this is the only move you’ll ever need to know,” the sensei replied.

Not quite understanding, but believing in his teacher, the boy kept training.

Several months later, the sensei took the boy to his first tournament. Surprising himself, the boy easily won his first two matches. The third match proved to be more difficult, but after some time, his opponent became impatient and charged; the boy deftly used his one move to win the match. Still amazed by his success, the boy was now in the finals.

This time, his opponent was bigger, stronger, and more experienced. For a while, the boy appeared to be over-matched. Concerned that the boy might get hurt, the referee called a time-out. He was about to stop the match when the sensei intervened.

“No,” the sensei insisted, “Let him continue.”

Soon after the match resumed, his opponent made a critical mistake: he dropped his guard. Instantly, the boy used his move to pin him. The boy had won the match and the tournament. He was the champion.

On the way home, the boy and sensei reviewed every move in each and every match. Then the boy summoned the courage to ask what was really on his mind.

“Sensei, how did I win the tournament with only one move?”

“You won for two reasons,” the sensei answered. “First, you’ve almost mastered one of the most difficult throws in all of judo. And second, the only known defence for that move is for your opponent to grab your left arm.”

The boy’s biggest weakness had become his biggest strength.

Time to Specialize

A randomized approach to training will never allow you to fully tap into your movement potential.  Last month, Coach Sonnon posted a great article on the importance of planning (check it out here).  My key take away from this post was his application of the Pareto Principle to training.

Though you can develop 80% of the skill in the first 2 months of rigorous practice, the final 20% of the skill mastery holds 80% of the benefit; inversely proportional skill develop to fitness benefit ratio. Now, apply that to only performing a work-out one session versus even 2 months of practice! It’s as simple as tension / muscle activation: the better you become at a skill, the more fibers you can activate/recruit, which in turn means the more force you can produce. The more you practice a skill, the greater internal fitness benefits you will receive by doing the same amount of external exercise; you’ll get stronger, fitter, slimmer with less total volume.

The last few months I have been focusing on General Physical Preparedness of the Training Hierarchy Pyramid to accomplish my near term goals.  I have set three goals that require incredible GPP (and yes, they do require skill mastery moving up the pyramid). thp

  1.  The first is to reach Rank III of the World Kettlebell Club rankings in Girevoy Sport with Kettlebells
  2. To complete the Clubbell “Trial by Fire
  3. Meet the Bar-Baron requirements

Each of these goals requires GPP, but more importantly they have specific skills that I will need to master in order to achieve them.  Since I have been focusing on these specific goals I have become very efficient in my GS kettlebell lifts and am very close to completing the first goal.  The second goal is my biggest challenge…I am able finish the “Trail by Fire” with a 15-lb club (still have to buy the 25-lb).  The third goal is within reach as I am now focusing on the 5 minute time limit.  I will keep you updated on my progress, but for now set some goals for yourself.  Get out there and become a “Serial Specialist” with me.

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